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[#] Fri Feb 22 2013 12:18:09 EST from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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Mindfuck, headfuck, coffee fuck ... how about just a regular fuck? Too old fashioned now?

[#] Fri Feb 22 2013 15:33:11 EST from zooer @ Uncensored

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How about a good ole fashion "Who gives a fuck?"

[#] Tue Mar 19 2013 19:58:10 EDT from LoanShark @ Uncensored

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For lack of a better room to post this in, there really is no hope for the human race. s/

[#] Wed Mar 20 2013 04:25:25 EDT from zooer @ Uncensored

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I don't think blaming the victim is anything knew, throughout history they have stoned women to death for being

[#] Tue Apr 02 2013 07:36:25 EDT from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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No need to go to history to find that. There are plenty of places (typically in muslim majority countries) where that is still the predominant practice.

[#] Tue Apr 02 2013 21:15:57 EDT from Ladyhawke @ Uncensored

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And yet, still reprehensible.

[#] Wed Apr 10 2013 16:21:58 EDT from triLcat @ Uncensored

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When I was in my late teens, someone told me that married couples only talk for like 5-7 minutes a day, and I thought that was awful and I'd never be like that.

We're like that.

And the only time we have longer conversations is when he wants to have a tirade at me for not doing enough. 


[#] Fri Apr 12 2013 10:52:57 EDT from fleeb @ Uncensored

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Sometimes, you get conversationed out. It helps if, as a couple, you do stuff together that can help generate more convesations in the future.

But, that isn't always easy to do, I know.

I'm certain that Melvin and I don't spend that little time chatting a day, because I currently have a record of how long our conversations are while I'm in Vegas, and it's closer to 20 minutes.

[#] Thu Apr 18 2013 20:34:24 EDT from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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Sometimes you don't need to talk ... it's enough just to be together. I find that there is a good amount of joy in simply doing ordinary things with loved ones ... the company helps to pass the time and it's nice just to be with someone (whether it's your SO or just another friend or family member).

Of course, that sometimes generates conversation on its own.

[#] Sat Apr 20 2013 18:15:05 EDT from triLcat @ Uncensored

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We're computer addicts. We're on computers in different rooms way too much of the time.


[#] Sat Apr 20 2013 20:35:52 EDT from fleeb @ Uncensored

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I'm clearly the computer addict in my family.

Melvin isn't.

So, occasionally, Melvin makes it clear when he wants some attention. He'll make it so I can't really watch videos or read articles... at which point I could either get frustrated and angry with him, or recognize that I've probably spent too much time in front of the computer, and spend some time with him.

But everyone's dynamics are different. Maybe you're getting exactly as much conversation time as you need. Or maybe you'd like a little more.

If you want more, I suppose you could pester your husband into chatting about something. But I wouldn't immediately expect him to grasp that that is your aim... you might want to time things well.

[#] Sun Apr 21 2013 02:13:12 EDT from triLcat @ Uncensored

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How pathetic is this - my first thought was that I should ask him to turn on skype when he's home so that I can send him messages. He used to do it, and we'd actually get a lot more communication that way...


[#] Sun Apr 21 2013 04:24:12 EDT from dothebart @ Uncensored

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heh, yea, know that. regardles whether its uncensored, emacs & gdb, IRC or simply facebook.

[#] Sun Apr 21 2013 22:53:24 EDT from ax25 @ Uncensored

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Sun Apr 21 2013 04:24:12 AM EDT from dothebart @ Uncensored

heh, yea, know that. regardles whether its uncensored, emacs & gdb, IRC or simply facebook.

I have tried using Citadel chat, but she just blocked the pop-ups.

[#] Mon Apr 22 2013 11:01:45 EDT from Shazam @ Uncensored

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What did you respond to Meir? Knowing him a bit, he's probably not purposely mind-fucking with you, he's just being oblivious as to how contacting you now would leave you feeling. Ignore him. Seriously. He will go away.

Don't worry that you are communicating more because of skyope or texting or whatever. Communication is communication, better that than nothing. Yeah, it'd be nice if you both would go for 20 min long walks together and chat every day, but if that's not the case, settle for 4 minute and half conversations and skpye.
OR you can nag and whine and beg for some time together so you can talk and then have him sit down and glare at you and yell "FINE! Talk. What do you want to talk about?" um.. nevermind, do what Fleeb said and try to do things together.

[#] Mon Apr 22 2013 13:15:58 EDT from triLcat @ Uncensored

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Re Meir: I left it at a kind of polite ignoring. 

He wished me a happy birthday.

Re my husby - I think I could just make more effort...

I think I should.


[#] Mon May 06 2013 22:06:55 EDT from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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You're getting communications from the Russian space station?

[#] Mon May 06 2013 22:19:00 EDT from LoanShark @ Uncensored

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I'm getting communications from the Dog Star, Sirius.

[#] Sun May 12 2013 08:41:04 EDT from fleeb @ Uncensored

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Are you serious?


[#] Thu May 16 2013 13:23:40 EDT from LoanShark @ Uncensored

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