Tue Nov 18 2008 02:43:08 PM EST from triLcat@uncnsrd (Uncensored)
not logical conclusions to draw given all of the evidence, some of which is convoluted and would take me paragraphs to explain
Aaahhh...well, logical, then, given what was presented.
Of course, they weren't necessarily meant to be conclusions, so much as alternate possibilities.
why dont you just ask her why she didnt come see you in a sort of funny way
my friends know me but i would respond like this to my girls
he bitch you went next door ...why didnt you come see me then laugh ..but it lets her know you know she was there
shell get embarressed appoligize and thats that .....
if not i choose answer B that makes a good excuse for her .....and well if you are in bed resting..then she did the right thing not to get you sick ....
tril : I go with Freakdog in this one. You're on bedrest, right?? It's not exactly like you're gonna be active and mobile, so maybe she want trying to be considerate and let you get your rest, yes?
I know, if I was visiting someone, and their neighbour, who I knew, was in bedrest, I'd let them get their rest, and not disturb them.
As well, give her a call, and just a friendly invitation; "Next time you're in the area, stop by and say hi, or just call."
I think you're reading too much into this. It's not a conspiracy. :)
I'm not gonna make a big deal of it, really. I just...am slightly ticked. Not that I think of her as like a great friend, but still.. it would've been nice if she'd stopped by to say hi.
Especially, cuz I made a point of posting that I could use visitors.
I'm pretty sure I remember her having posted a response like "feel better" to my status update which said "triL is on bedrest and would love to have visitors"
I could pick up the phone, but I can't drive out to see her, cuz I don't have a car.
I don't often invite her out here, b/c I know she's busy and it's a bit of a trek.
It just seems kinda like a snub that she was in my building and didn't say hi.
HMM AM I BEING IGNORED I WONDER ...LOL ITS OK IM NOT GOIN SO YOUR ALL STUK
HI THERE SG!! WE KNOW YOU'RE HERE!!
<< waves frantically across the 'net >>
TriL, give her the benefit of the doubt because it will do neither of you any good to get mad. And after you've absorbed taht, give her a call, and just say, "hey, sorry I missed you the other day while you were in the building. If you have time and are up to it, I'd love it if you'd stop by the next time your in the area."
if she does, excellent! If not, well, then you've gained an important piece of information.
You know me well enough to know that I'm a complete WYSIWYG. But most people really dislike conflict, so in all likelihood, confronting it directly may not go quite as planned, if it was on purpose; if it wasn't, then approacing as above avoids embarrassing her (I think).
I think I'll just leave it alone.
I think she was kinda rude, but hey, I've tolerated a heck of a lot worse from loads of people, so whatever.