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[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 16:31:11 EST from Freakdog @ Dog Pound BBS II

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Tue Nov 18 2008 02:43:08 PM EST from triLcat@uncnsrd (Uncensored)

not logical conclusions to draw given all of the evidence, some of which is convoluted and would take me paragraphs to explain

 

Aaahhh...well, logical, then, given what was presented.

Of course, they weren't necessarily meant to be conclusions, so much as alternate possibilities.



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 18:49:46 EST from simplygorgeous @ My Castle Wall

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why dont you just ask her why she didnt come see you in a sort of funny way

 

  my friends know me but i would respond like this to my girls

he bitch you went next door ...why didnt you come see me then laugh ..but it lets her know you know she was there

shell get embarressed appoligize and thats that .....

if not i choose answer B that makes a good excuse for her .....and well if you are in bed resting..then she did the right thing not to get you sick ....



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 19:01:54 EST from flynnfx @ Uncensored

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tril : I go with Freakdog in this one. You're on bedrest, right?? It's not exactly like you're gonna be active and mobile, so maybe she want trying to be considerate and let you get your rest, yes?

I know, if I was visiting someone, and their neighbour, who I knew, was in bedrest, I'd let them get their rest, and not disturb them.

 

As well, give her a call, and just a friendly invitation; "Next time you're in the area, stop by and say hi, or just call."

I think you're reading too much into this. It's not a conspiracy.  :) 



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 19:40:15 EST from fleeb @ Uncensored

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You won't really know unless you ask.

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 19:40:26 EST from fleeb @ Uncensored

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(and maybe not even then)

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 19:41:05 EST from triLcat @ Uncensored

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I'm not gonna make a big deal of it, really. I just...am slightly ticked. Not that I think of her as like a great friend, but still.. it would've been nice if she'd stopped by to say hi.

Especially, cuz I made a point of posting that I could use visitors.



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 19:53:02 EST from fleeb @ Uncensored

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*aliens from outer-space prepare triLcat for a special probing*

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 20:50:30 EST from Peter Pulse @ Uncensored

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Maybe she doesn't check your facebook before making her plans each day. I imagine direct communication would work better than posting on your facebook and then getting mad when people don't plan their lives around it.

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 20:52:17 EST from triLcat @ Uncensored

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I posted it in like 20 different ways over the course of 2 weeks, and i'm fairly certain she responded to it.

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:06:31 EST from flynnfx @ Uncensored

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How are you fairly certain, tril? Did she directly respond to your Facebook page, or no? If not, then you're assuming....

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:10:27 EST from triLcat @ Uncensored

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I'm pretty sure I remember her having posted a response like "feel better" to my status update which said "triL is on bedrest and would love to have visitors"

 



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:14:27 EST from flynnfx @ Uncensored

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Well, so call her, and mention what I said above - it's also entirely possible she just plumb forgot - people have busy lives, and just possibly didn't think/remember about it, and maybe a reminder would have helped. You could have called her too, you've got five fingers to dial that telephone, and invite her over, right?

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:18:01 EST from triLcat @ Uncensored

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I could pick up the phone, but I can't drive out to see her, cuz I don't have a car.

I don't often invite her out here, b/c I know she's busy and it's a bit of a trek.

It just seems kinda like a snub that she was in my building and didn't say hi.

 



[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:18:15 EST from simplygorgeous @ My Castle Wall

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oh fb fb im on there gimme gimme gimme oh maybe not ..you maynot like what ya see in there lol

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 21:34:12 EST from simplygorgeous @ My Castle Wall

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HMM AM I BEING IGNORED I WONDER ...LOL ITS OK IM NOT GOIN SO YOUR ALL STUK WITH ME ANYWAY HA oops sorry for yelling that one .....

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 22:01:50 EST from Ford II @ Uncensored

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I have this friend see....

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 23:49:39 EST from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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HMM AM I BEING IGNORED I WONDER ...LOL ITS OK IM NOT GOIN SO YOUR ALL STUK


HI THERE SG!! WE KNOW YOU'RE HERE!!

<< waves frantically across the 'net >>

[#] Tue Nov 18 2008 23:59:21 EST from Ladyhawke @ Uncensored

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TriL, give her the benefit of the doubt because it will do neither of you any good to get mad.  And after you've absorbed taht, give her a call, and just say, "hey, sorry I missed you the other day while you were in the building.  If you have time and are up to it, I'd love it if you'd stop by the next time your in the area."

if she does, excellent!  If not, well, then you've gained an important piece of information.

You know me well enough to know that I'm a complete WYSIWYG.  But most people really dislike conflict, so in all likelihood, confronting it directly may not go quite as planned, if it was on purpose; if it wasn't, then approacing as above avoids embarrassing her (I think).



[#] Wed Nov 19 2008 02:33:34 EST from triLcat @ Uncensored

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I think I'll just leave it alone.

I think she was kinda rude, but hey, I've tolerated a heck of a lot worse from loads of people, so whatever.

 



[#] Wed Nov 19 2008 04:46:33 EST from girthta @ Uncensored

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So triL, aside from obsessing over Facebook, what else are you doing to occupy your time while on bedrest?

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