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[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 03:33:25 EDT from girthta @ Uncensored

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flynn, I think your percentage number is way low!

[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 07:48:22 EDT from fxflynn @ Uncensored

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Actually, girthta, that was from the article.  ;)
Mon 13 Aug 2007 03:33:25 AM EDT from girthta

flynn, I think your percentage number is way low!


[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 08:23:47 EDT from girthta @ Uncensored

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yea, well, I think it's bullshit.

Probably in reality it's closer to 99% 



[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 10:24:23 EDT from shazam @ Uncensored

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I'm also hoping eventually she'll get over it and such. The thing is, most people I've ever talked to about getting over ex's, it takes several years to really get over them, even if they are with someone else already. I was thinking that her continuing to be friends with me would prevent her from getting over my brother. But then, on the other hand, I really like her and don't think I'm going to let her go. So I guess that would have to be her choice, she can leave if she thinks it's not good for her to stay. I'm staying.

 

Actually starting to fake an orgasm is a useful way to get a real one. Kind of like, when your partner wants sex but you're so not in the mood, but you go along anyway and before you know it, you are in the mood. Like excersize. When you really don't want to but you go out and start anyway, then like 5 imnutes in you're really enjoying it. Or like house cleaning, when you really don't feel like cleaning your house, but you start anyway.. oh no wait. That actually doesn't apply. Never mind.



[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 11:22:19 EDT from truffle @ Uncensored

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99%? No way

[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 18:07:15 EDT from nadia @ Uncensored

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shazam's got an interesting angle on it though. never thought of that.

[#] Mon Aug 13 2007 18:08:13 EDT from nadia @ Uncensored

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oh, and shazam i don't think your being her friend should make it take longer for her to get over him. if anything it forces her to deal with it more that she would if there were no reminders, right?

[#] Tue Aug 14 2007 22:54:52 EDT from shazam @ Uncensored

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Yeah, I don't know about "dealing with it". It depends how a person goes about getting over someone else. If it's a matter of working through your feelings and thereby finding yourself no longer aching for his or her company, then, sure. Being forced to fact the facts will accelerate the "mourning" period and make you get over it faster. On the other hand, it always seemed to me that the only way people "get over it" is by forgetting. It takes passage of time and other things happening to fill your brain up with other things so you can forget. It's harder to forget if you have constant reminders.

[#] Wed Aug 15 2007 15:57:56 EDT from Ladyhawke @ Uncensored

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I guess I'm a little more like nadia on this kind of thing.  But everyone is different.  I suppose the only way to know for sure is to ask her directly.  Whatever you decide, I hope it works out for you (pl) though.  Good luck!

[#] Thu Aug 16 2007 23:25:04 EDT from Nighthawk @ Uncensored

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girls who masturbate are less likely to fake orgasms.

 

Oh my, that could be read in so many different ways

A girl who masturbates learns how to please her own body and knows how to ensure her pleasure durring sex.    I like that.  If i'm having really into pleasing >her< I can pick up cues on what she needs by how she moves.  If I'm having an off night I can just kick back and let her take charge. 



[#] Fri Aug 17 2007 11:12:29 EDT from girthta @ Uncensored

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double edged sword-

It's also been suggested that girls who masturbate too much ccan have problems finding pleasure from someone else. 



[#] Fri Aug 17 2007 16:10:22 EDT from LoanShark @ Uncensored

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The same thing has been said (only with more emphasis) about vibrators -- that they overstimulate the nerve endings, which start to require that high level of stimulation to get off.

So I've been told, of course ;)

[#] Fri Aug 17 2007 18:19:03 EDT from nadia @ Uncensored

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well there's a world of difference between masturbating and a vibrator in the someone else context. three's a crowd. ymmv.

[#] Fri Aug 17 2007 22:03:35 EDT from dothebart @ Uncensored

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Fri 17 Aug 2007 06:19:03 PM EDT from nadia

well there's a world of difference between masturbating and a vibrator in the someone else context. three's a crowd. ymmv.

my ex was using sort of a massage device at the size of a hair dryer and the weight of 5 of them to get herself done. I can't tell which sort of !I'll never gonna punch her with 500 W on a base of 3kHz to get her come" to me.

[#] Sat Aug 18 2007 08:30:00 EDT from dothebart @ Uncensored

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[#] Sat Aug 18 2007 17:35:18 EDT from truffle @ Uncensored

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ls: my dad told me that about vibrators when I was a teen. I don't believe it;

[#] Sun Aug 19 2007 19:21:38 EDT from nadia @ Uncensored

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and the weight of 5 of them to get herself done. I can't tell which
sort of !I'll never gonna punch her with 500 W on a base of 3kHz to
get her come" to me.

lol

[#] Tue Aug 21 2007 16:54:56 EDT from LoanShark @ Uncensored

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*aborts post in truffle's general direction*

[#] Wed Aug 22 2007 11:21:40 EDT from truffle @ Uncensored

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Nono, see, I am the abortionist type. You don't need to abort thigns in my direction, I doit fine myself.

[#] Wed Aug 22 2007 12:14:19 EDT from IGnatius T Foobar @ Uncensored

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I seem to recall that it was truffle who used to perform that variety of taunting, and it was directed at Groo. Where is Groo anyway?

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