Mon 13 Aug 2007 03:33:25 AM EDT from girthta
flynn, I think your percentage number is way low!
yea, well, I think it's bullshit.
Probably in reality it's closer to 99%
I'm also hoping eventually she'll get over it and such. The thing is, most people I've ever talked to about getting over ex's, it takes several years to really get over them, even if they are with someone else already. I was thinking that her continuing to be friends with me would prevent her from getting over my brother. But then, on the other hand, I really like her and don't think I'm going to let her go. So I guess that would have to be her choice, she can leave if she thinks it's not good for her to stay. I'm staying.
Actually starting to fake an orgasm is a useful way to get a real one. Kind of like, when your partner wants sex but you're so not in the mood, but you go along anyway and before you know it, you are in the mood. Like excersize. When you really don't want to but you go out and start anyway, then like 5 imnutes in you're really enjoying it. Or like house cleaning, when you really don't feel like cleaning your house, but you start anyway.. oh no wait. That actually doesn't apply. Never mind.
girls who masturbate are less likely to fake orgasms.
Oh my, that could be read in so many different ways
A girl who masturbates learns how to please her own body and knows how to ensure her pleasure durring sex. I like that. If i'm having really into pleasing >her< I can pick up cues on what she needs by how she moves. If I'm having an off night I can just kick back and let her take charge.
double edged sword-
It's also been suggested that girls who masturbate too much ccan have problems finding pleasure from someone else.
The same thing has been said (only with more emphasis) about vibrators -- that they overstimulate the nerve endings, which start to require that high level of stimulation to get off.
So I've been told, of course ;)
Fri 17 Aug 2007 06:19:03 PM EDT from nadia
well there's a world of difference between masturbating and a vibrator in the someone else context. three's a crowd. ymmv.
my ex was using sort of a massage device at the size of a hair dryer and the weight of 5 of them to get herself done. I can't tell which sort of !I'll never gonna punch her with 500 W on a base of 3kHz to get her come" to me.
and the weight of 5 of them to get herself done. I can't tell which
sort of !I'll never gonna punch her with 500 W on a base of 3kHz to
get her come" to me.
*aborts post in truffle's general direction*