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[#] Mon Jul 14 2008 06:54:13 EDT from Freakdog @ Dog Pound BBS II

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Well, maybe so...but given the rate of teen (and sometimes pre-teen) pregnancy in the States, chastity ain't necessarily a bad way to go.

[#] Thu Jul 17 2008 01:19:55 EDT from Simplygorgeous @ Dog Pound BBS II

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good luck trying to promote chastity while we focre and shove explict music film clips down our childrens throats ........we want then to not grow up too fast .but then as adults we allow magazines ad telavition to create a sexualised world around them ..i mean what hope to the poor things have i wwish all stayed virgins until they were 18(adults) but thats not the world we live in so lets concentrate on teaching young kids to use protection .

[#] Thu Jul 17 2008 01:23:55 EDT from Simplygorgeous @ Dog Pound BBS II

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any preteen(child) engaging in any sexual activity is actually being raped ...no preteen(child) is mentaly capable of makeing a just and correct disision on there sexuality considering puberty may of not yet  of started

[#] Fri Jul 18 2008 10:41:40 EDT from Freakdog @ Dog Pound BBS II

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Thu Jul 17 2008 01:19:55 AM EDT from Simplygorgeous

good luck trying to promote chastity while we focre and shove explict music film clips down our childrens throats ........we want then to not grow up too fast .but then as adults we allow magazines ad telavition to create a sexualised world around them ..i mean what hope to the poor things have i wwish all stayed virgins until they were 18(adults) but thats not the world we live in so lets concentrate on teaching young kids to use protection .

Define "we".

 

I don't force or shove explicit anything down my kids' throats.  I try to keep them away from that...including my 17 year old...as much as possible, at this point.

I'd probalby let my 17yo daughter watch or listen to a bit more, were it not for some emotional stunting from which she suffers, having come from a bad home life prior to our adopting her.

My 9yo son is also very strictly supervised, as to the content he's allowed to view/listen to when with us.



[#] Fri Jul 18 2008 10:45:37 EDT from Freakdog @ Dog Pound BBS II

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Thu Jul 17 2008 01:23:55 AM EDT from Simplygorgeous

any preteen(child) engaging in any sexual activity is actually being raped ...no preteen(child) is mentaly capable of makeing a just and correct disision on there sexuality considering puberty may of not yet  of started

Hard to force a rape charge on a pair of teens/preteens who are in the same age group.

While I agree that htey are probably not capable of making such a decision, using the proper rationale and judgement, I find it difficult to rationalize a charge of rape in such a case.

Now, thrown in cases of greatly disparate age ranges, and older people (kids or otherwise) taking advantage of the naivete of the child in question, then I've got no problem with it, in the "statutory" frame of reference.



[#] Fri Jul 18 2008 21:47:13 EDT from Simplygorgeous @ Dog Pound BBS II

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you will find that most children under 12yaers of age  having sex are having intercourse with a teenager ......apparently when you become a teenager at 13 you are ment to wake up and know wrong from write ....yes ofcourse its hard to prosicute young children for having sex and so we shouldnt for the very young ..but if an 16 year old was to have sex with a 12 year old this has certainly crossed the line and laws should be enforced

we can all do what we can in our own homes to protect our children for porn and grafic depictions ...however  the school  enviroment is another place .and so is billboard pictures and public advertising

and if we are to be real not alot of parents talk to there children about there enviroment let alone teach them  or talk openly about sex

we still live ina world of hush hushh

there is a sexual revolotion going on now and its much bigger than in the 60;s and more experimental between the sexes

we have a greedy selfish  selfcentred generation that wonts to have everything

 



[#] Fri Jul 18 2008 21:53:13 EDT from Simplygorgeous @ Dog Pound BBS II

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i was so protective of my 2 older girls many years ago  that when the simpsons first started  i didnt allow myself let alone my girls to watch it until the 3rd season it shocked the hell out of me promoting chld abuse and family violence ..but alas i have surcome to the  wicked ways of this world .....

[#] Sat Jul 19 2008 20:41:32 EDT from Freakdog @ Dog Pound BBS II

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Fri Jul 18 2008 09:47:13 PM EDT from Simplygorgeous

you will find that most children under 12yaers of age  having sex are having intercourse with a teenager ......apparently when you become a teenager at 13 you are ment to wake up and know wrong from write ....yes ofcourse its hard to prosicute young children for having sex and so we shouldnt for the very young ..but if an 16 year old was to have sex with a 12 year old this has certainly crossed the line and laws should be enforced

we can all do what we can in our own homes to protect our children for porn and grafic depictions ...however  the school  enviroment is another place .and so is billboard pictures and public advertising

and if we are to be real not alot of parents talk to there children about there enviroment let alone teach them  or talk openly about sex

we still live ina world of hush hushh

there is a sexual revolotion going on now and its much bigger than in the 60;s and more experimental between the sexes

we have a greedy selfish  selfcentred generation that wonts to have everything

 

FWIW, I understand it, first hand.

2 Octobers ago, my daughter, then 15, got involved with an 18 year old boy.

I had warned him, well ahead of their actual involvment, that if anything were to develop between them, and anything sexual happened, that there would be consequences.

Long story short, things happened, she lost her mind, got herself into bed with him, and had sex.

As promised, I pressed charges, for statuatory rape.

The problem, unfortunately, is that she knew full well what she was doing, and might even have been the initiator, rather than the boy.

And believe me, if there were legal consequences that I could have had pressed against her for her role in the situation, I'd have done that, too.



[#] Sun Jul 20 2008 01:56:06 EDT from Simplygorgeous @ Dog Pound BBS II

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let me tell you a story my then 14 year old daughter started sneeking out and was actually catching up with my sleazy brotherinlaw ages 26 ..we had no idea for about a month as hey being young she had friends that lived around the corner so we didnt put 2 and 2 together ...(i mean why would we ) anyway we did find out and after weeks of screaming and yelling at her .and his parents doing the same they wouldnt stop .....so im my desperation i phoned the goverment run family and community services as they are ment to protect our children from these predators .....they swiftly and rudley told me to go prove it ....me they asked me to go prove  that they were having sex ...she was now 15 and kept telling me she has not had sex with him .....i offered her 1000 dollars if she waited tll 16 atleast .......i then got her into one of the child and adolecence couceling servises ...my hope was that they would explain to her the consequinces of under age sex with an adult ..................but no ..infront of my daughter by the coulselor i was told i need to shut my mouth and stay out of it .....due to the fact that i didnt onw her body it was hers to do as she liked ..this then simply game her more amunition to get back at me to say well you have no say mum ............i was in tears all the time what the hell do i do now i wanted to kill him ...long story short  she did loose her virginity to him a few weeks before her 16th birthday they dated for 4 years ........it ended a year ago .she is now with someone her own age and NOW ONLY NOW can she see what was realy going on and it makes her feel sick

my point is we have all these laws inplace to protect our children  but no one is willing to uphold them i did everything i could as a single mother .i felt tottaly gutted by the lack of assistance i recieved .

thank god ..thank god it all turned out ok in the end ..he is now still going out with younger girls  ..i just hope that one day he gets caught by one of there fathers and justice prevailes 



[#] Tue Aug 12 2008 22:48:01 EDT from simplygorgeous @ My Castle Wall

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I lost myn at 15 i thought i did quite well to hold out that long

then ofcourse i was the areas whore cause i had sex with 1 fella ggeezzzz

and and i didnt have my first child till 18

ok ok maybe i should of held of a bit longer

ill blame my mother for that one ..she should of told me about boys



[#] Wed Nov 05 2008 18:31:33 EST from barhillbob @ My Castle Wall

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I was 18 when I lost mine. Never really into girls at school, too busy with studying and hanging out with friends.

Making up for lost time now, had more sex in the last 9 months than the previous 6 years. Lots of horny women out there in their 40s, it just gets better with age....x



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